Big ears


*Nat and Daniel playing and yelling*

Natalie: AAAAARRRRGGGHHHH

Daniel: OOOIII!! Don't scream in my ear, or my ears will blow up OK?

Natalie: Never mind what. Then your ears will just be like Daddy.

Sigh.


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